In general, if you press tab, you are going to move to the next control in the UI. However, this does not happen with shinyMatrix. If the matrix is not focused, you can't focus it pressing tab from a previous control. If the matrix is focused, you can't leave it by pressing tab.
The expected behavior is to be able to focus in and focus out using tab, and therefore triggering store of the changed data on focus out (as if you were clicking outside with the mouse)