support additional Lit SSR configuration options

[thescientist13]

Motivation

Coming out of #1646 / #1647 , an action item was taken to support additional Lit SSR configurations

1. additional connected callback tag names
2. disableSsr

Technical Design

These should be options passed into the plugin, e.g.

import { greenwoodPluginRendererLit } from '@greenwood/plugin-renderer-lit';

export default {
  plugins: [
    greenwoodPluginRendererLit({
      connectedCallbackTags: [/* ... */], // array of strings / Regexs to test against
      disableSsrTags: [/* ... */], // array of strings / Regexs to test against
    })   
  ]
}

Additional Tasks:

1. Update the types
2. Add documentation - document default page export support for Lit SSR based routes www.greenwoodjs.dev#273

Additional Context

As bonus points, would be nice to resolve this Rollup bundling logging (maybe just silence with a plugin?)

../../../../../node_modules/@lit-labs/ssr-dom-shim/lib/events.js (6:30): The 'this' keyword is equivalent to 'undefined' at the top level of an ES module, and has been rewritten