Cache the set of active transfers in receive arbiter #4822

Job	Run time
read-build-matrix	8s
clang-tidy	1m 26s
build-and-test (dpcpp, ad494e9d, false, 22.04, intel, Debug)	11m 17s
build-and-test (dpcpp, ad494e9d, false, 22.04, intel, Release)	10m 31s
build-and-test (dpcpp, latest, true, 24.04, intel, Debug)	10m 10s
build-and-test (dpcpp, latest, true, 24.04, intel, Release)	11m 3s
build-and-test (acpp, v24.06.0, false, 22.04, nvidia, Debug)	11m 17s
build-and-test (acpp, v24.06.0, false, 22.04, nvidia, Release)	15m 1s
build-and-test (acpp, latest, true, 24.04, nvidia, Debug)	12m 53s
build-and-test (acpp, latest, true, 24.04, nvidia, Release)	16m 58s
build-and-test (simsycl, HEAD, true, 24.04, intel, Release)	6m 34s
build-and-test (simsycl, HEAD, true, 24.04, intel, Debug)	16m 53s
report	21s
tag-latest-containers	0s
	2h 4m 32s

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