adjust the links and information regarding where to get help

Author: ursfassler

Diff for: CONTRIBUTING.md

@@ -2,7 +2,6 @@
 
 We appreciate that. But before you do, please learn our basic rules:
 
-* This is not a support or discussion forum. If you have a question, please ask it on [The Cukes Google Group](http://groups.google.com/group/cukes) or on [Gitter](https://gitter.im/cucumber/).
 * Do you have a feature request? Then don't expect it to be implemented unless you or someone else sends a [pull request](https://help.github.com/articles/using-pull-requests).
 * Reporting a bug? We need to know what compiler, operating system and architecture (32 or 64 bit) you are using, including versions of all libraries. Bugs with [pull requests](https://help.github.com/articles/using-pull-requests) get fixed quicker. Some bugs may never be fixed.
 * You have to tell us how to reproduce a bug. Bonus point for a [pull request](https://help.github.com/articles/using-pull-requests) with a failing test that reproduces the bug.

Diff for: README.md

@@ -7,11 +7,9 @@ Cucumber-Cpp allows Cucumber to support step definitions written in C++.
 * [Cucumber-Cpp Website](https://github.com/cucumber/cucumber-cpp)
 * [Cucumber-Cpp Documentation](https://github.com/cucumber/cucumber-cpp/wiki/)
 * [Cucumber Website](https://cucumber.io/)
-* [Cucumber Discussion Group](https://cucumber.io/docs/community/get-in-touch/)
+* [Get in touch](https://cucumber.io/docs/community/get-in-touch/)
 
-If you need to ask a question, don't open a ticket on GitHub! Please post
-your question on the Cucumber discussion group instead, prefixing the title
-with [CPP].
+If you need to ask a question, post on the [Cucumber discussion group](https://github.com/orgs/cucumber/discussions).
 
 If you want to contribute code to the project, guidelines are in [CONTRIBUTING.md](CONTRIBUTING.md).