elastic-apm-node not working for mongoose 8.0.3 and mongodb 6.2.0

[sibelius]

Describe the bug

elastic-apm-node not working for mongoose 8.0.3 and mongodb 6.2.0

it does not create mongodb spans

To Reproduce

Steps to reproduce the behavior:

1. Use this config '...'
2. Then call '....'
3. Then do '....'
4. See error

Upgrade to mongoose 8.0.3 and MongoDB 6.2.0

Expected behavior

it should save MongoDB spans for each .find

Environment (please complete the following information)

• OS: linux
• Node.js version: 20.11.0
• APM Server version: 7
• Agent version: 7

How are you starting the agent? (please tick one of the boxes)

• Calling agent.start() directly (e.g. require('elastic-apm-node').start(...))
• Requiring elastic-apm-node/start from within the source code
• Starting node with -r elastic-apm-node/start

Additional context

• elastic-apm-node: 4.3.0

related to #2844 and #1690

[sibelius]

we were using an old apm version