Use cmake as build system

[mtaillefumier]

build tmlQCD using cmake.

• Build small dependencies if not found
• hdf5
• add support for building lemon and c-lime
• large file support
• keep config.h philosophy for compilation dependent parameters (MPI, OpenMP)
• QUDA
• CUDA
• HIP
• QPhiX
• fftw3
• compile lemon with cmake (PR opened)