Skip verifyCompilerOptions when possible on program updates (#60754)

Co-authored-by: Daniel Rosenwasser <[email protected]>

Author: andrewbranch

src/compiler/_namespaces/ts.ts

@@ -61,6 +61,7 @@ export * from "../transformer.js";
 export * from "../emitter.js";
 export * from "../watchUtilities.js";
 export * from "../program.js";
+export * from "../programDiagnostics.js";
 export * from "../builderStatePublic.js";
 export * from "../builderState.js";
 export * from "../builder.js";