diff --git a/src/Attribute.php b/src/Attribute.php
index ebd7a11..c7adb0e 100644
--- a/src/Attribute.php
+++ b/src/Attribute.php
@@ -29,6 +29,16 @@ class Attribute
     /** @var array */
     protected $keyIndexes = [];
 
+    /**
+     * @var array
+     */
+    private $attributesRef = [];
+
+    /**
+     * @var string|int|null
+     */
+    private $selfKey = null;
+
     /**
      * Constructor
      *
@@ -84,6 +94,19 @@ public function getPrimaryAttribute()
         return $this->primaryAttribute;
     }
 
+    /**
+     * Provide a reference to all attributes, so we can dynamically exclude self
+     *
+     * @param array $allAttributes
+     * @param string|int $selfKey
+     * @return void
+     */
+    public function setAttributesReference(array &$allAttributes, $selfKey)
+    {
+        $this->attributesRef = &$allAttributes;
+        $this->selfKey = $selfKey;
+    }
+
     /**
      * Set other attributes
      *
@@ -116,7 +139,18 @@ public function addOtherAttribute(Attribute $otherAttribute)
      */
     public function getOtherAttributes(): array
     {
-        return $this->otherAttributes;
+        if (!empty($this->attributesRef) && $this->selfKey !== null) {
+            return array_filter(
+                $this->attributesRef,
+                function ($_, $key) {
+                    return $key !== $this->selfKey;
+                },
+                ARRAY_FILTER_USE_BOTH
+            );
+        }
+
+        // fallback to legacy if not initialized
+        return $this->otherAttributes ?? [];
     }
 
     /**
diff --git a/src/Validation.php b/src/Validation.php
index d74786a..da059f5 100644
--- a/src/Validation.php
+++ b/src/Validation.php
@@ -218,10 +218,8 @@ protected function parseArrayAttribute(Attribute $attribute): array
         }
 
         // set other attributes to each attributes
-        foreach ($attributes as $i => $attr) {
-            $otherAttributes = $attributes;
-            unset($otherAttributes[$i]);
-            $attr->setOtherAttributes($otherAttributes);
+        foreach ($this->attributes as $i => $attr) {
+            $attr->setAttributesReference($this->attributes, $i);
         }
 
         return $attributes;