FYI: [C++] Use CMake target instead of add_definitions() for xxHash

[kou]

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[kou]

This is another implementation for #47476 (comment) .

[raulcd]

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Revision: 01c46cc

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-b1f719ff78

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