[bazel] Bump default bazel version to 9.1.1 (backport #1681)

[mergify]

🎉 New feature

Summary

Bump bazel version to 9.1.1. Some deps need to be updated.

Backport Policy

• This is safe to backport to the following versions:
  • Jetty
  • Ionic
  • Harmonic
  • Fortress
• This should not be backported
• I am not sure
• Other (fill in yourself)

Test it

bazel build ...

Checklist

• Signed all commits for DCO
• Added a screen capture or video to the PR description that demonstrates the feature
• Added tests
• Added example and/or tutorial
• Updated documentation (as needed)
• Updated migration guide (as needed)
• Consider updating Python bindings (if the library has them)
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• All tests passed (See test coverage)
• Updated Bazel files (if adding new files). Created an issue otherwise.
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This is an automatic backport of pull request #1681 done by Mergify.

[shameekganguly]

This needs a newer BCR patch release for gz-math once gazebosim/gz-math#783 is merged

[scpeters]

This needs a newer BCR patch release for gz-math once gazebosim/gz-math#783 is merged

I just merged it