bug: disallow updating apiServerLB private IP after AzureCluster creation

[3mbe]

What type of PR is this?
/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:

• Forbids updating the API server LB private IP after AzureCluster creation.
• Applies to type: Internal and type: Public when feature.APIServerILB is enabled.
• Prevents control-plane endpoint disruption.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes (optional, in fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...) format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged):
Fixes #5314

Special notes for your reviewer:

TODOs:

• squashed commits
• includes documentation
• adds unit tests
• cherry-pick candidate

Release note:

Forbid changing the API server LoadBalancer private IP after AzureCluster creation (including Public+APIServerILB); updates now return FieldValueForbidden.

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✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 46.97%. Comparing base (3decd56) to head (8151715).

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[willie-yao]

/assign @jackfrancis