Bump napi toolchain to 3.3

[philipp-spiess]

This PR bumps all napi related dependencies to their latest version. Napi 3 has by now officially been released but since we've been using the preview already, there aren't many changes.

One thing that ChatGPT found is that --no-const-enum is the default behavior now (see default value in this table)

Test plan

• pnpm install && pnpm build
• cd crates/node/npm/wasm32-wasi
• pnpm install --ignore-workspace (This is necessary for some reason or the bundled dependencies won't work, I have no clue why it's not necessary on CI)
• pnpm pack
• Install dependency in a new npm package with a simple config like this:

  import { Scanner } from "@tailwindcss/oxide-wasm32-wasi";
  
  let scanner = new Scanner({
    sources: [
      {
        base: "/Users/philipp/dev/tailwindcss/packages/@tailwindcss-postcss/src/fixtures/example-project",
        pattern: "**/*",
        negated: false,
      },
    ],
  });
  
  console.log(scanner.scan());

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I also tested the CI build to make sure the bundledDependencies are properly added.