Update all kubernetes crates in data-plane code base

[nhudson]

• Use latest k8s-openapi (0.24.0) and kube-rs (0.98.0) now that we run Kubernetes 1.30/1.31 across our cloud environments.
• Update CI and local to run Kind 1.31.6
• Update operator CI to run a bit more efficiently
• Update tembo-pod-init, conductor, tembo-operator and dataplane-webserver
• Removes outdates crate tembo-telemetry from tembo-pod-init

Conductor:

• _total is appended automatically to all metric names. This shouldn't be too much of a change, outside of renaming the counter from conductor_total to conductor since _total is appended automatically now.

  new conductor metrics:

  # HELP conductor_completed_total Number of messages successfully processed in conductor
  # TYPE conductor_completed_total counter
  conductor_completed_total{otel_scope_name="conductor"} 5
  # HELP conductor_requeues_total Number of requeues in conductor
  # TYPE conductor_requeues_total counter
  conductor_requeues_total{queue_duration="short",otel_scope_name="conductor"} 2
  # HELP conductor_total_total Total number of dequeues in conductor
  # TYPE conductor_total_total counter
  conductor_total{otel_scope_name="conductor"} 7
  # HELP otel_scope_info Instrumentation Scope metadata
  # TYPE otel_scope_info gauge
  otel_scope_info{otel_scope_name="conductor"} 1
  # HELP target_info Target metadata
  # TYPE target_info gauge
  target_info{service_name="unknown_service"} 1
  

  old conductor metrics:

  # HELP conductor_completed_total Number of messages sucessfully processed in conductor
  # TYPE conductor_completed_total counter
  conductor_completed_total{otel_scope_name="actix_web"} 4
  # HELP conductor_requeues_total Number of requeues in conductor
  # TYPE conductor_requeues_total counter
  conductor_requeues_total{queue_duration="short",otel_scope_name="actix_web"} 1
  # HELP conductor_total Total number of dequeues in conductor
  # TYPE conductor_total counter
  conductor_total{otel_scope_name="actix_web"} 5
  # HELP target_info Target metadata
  # TYPE target_info gauge
  target_info{service_name="conductor"} 1
  

• Linear: TEM-3165