Update AppBarButton and related classes to winui3/release/1.6.4

[MartinZikmund]

GitHub Issue (If applicable): related to #19215

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What kind of change does this PR introduce?

• Feature

What is the current behavior?

Design and functionality not up to date

What is the new behavior?

Up to date

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